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THE DIARY OF A MAD BLACK COUPLE

The Diary of a Mad Black Couple is a podcast from Thrivology Limited. Bear McBlack and Carlene Nisbett-McBlack talk plainly about ambition, money, repair and the relationship they are actually in.

mad (adj.): two doctoral researchers, a full house, one shared Google Calendar and a lot of people telling us we do things the unorthodox way.

Peer reviewed by 5 kids.

Episodes: coming soon

Bear and Carlene in graduation gowns and caps, each holding a rolled certificate
Exhibit A: the gowns
Bear and Carlene pulling kissy faces in a selfie at carnival
Exhibit B: the "mad" bit
Bear and Carlene seen from above on grass, each pushing a pram
Exhibit C: the methodology

Entry 002 · The show

What Season 1 covers

Most episodes are the two of us together. No guests in the first season, and no lecture.

8 episodesAbout 35 to 45 minutesWeekly, once recording starts

  1. Who we are

    How we met, in the version we are both willing to say in public, and why this show exists.

  2. Love at home

    What we each learned about love in the families we grew up in. Patterns kept, patterns dropped.

  3. Before us

    Dating before this relationship, and what we would not repeat.

  4. How we talk

    Different styles, where it breaks, and what changed that.

  5. Money

    Different instincts, and how a decision actually gets made.

  6. Closeness

    The difference between being near each other and being in a relationship.

  7. Other people

    Family opinion, friends, work, and what we will not take into the relationship.

  8. Repair

    One fight we can tell, and what we are taking into the next year.

Entry 003 · The researchers

More than our job titles

Parents, partners, researchers, people with day jobs. Here is the rest of the file.

Bear smiling in a dark teal polo shirt
Subject A

Bear McBlack BSc (Hons), MBA

Also known as

  • Dad
  • Carlene's other half
  • Doctoral researcher, Generative AI
  • Head of AI Strategy, Thrivology Limited
  • Retro gamer
  • 80s sci-fi devotee

Research question

Why do small businesses try AI for a week and then quietly give up?

Carlene smiling, hair up in a bun, in purple studio light
Subject B

Carlene Nisbett-McBlack MBA, BA (Hons)

Also known as

  • Mum
  • Bear's other half
  • Doctoral researcher, Black women entrepreneurs
  • Founder, Femmeprenista
  • Founder and Lead Coach, Thrivology Executive Coaching
  • Former Apple retail marketer
  • Fashion designer by training

Research question

What does success really take for Black women who build businesses?

Sample characteristics

Facts about the two hosts as a couple
VariableValue
Years togetherAlmost a decade
Star signsGemini, Gemini
Peer reviewers5
Dogs2 (Cappuccino and Espresso)
Doctorates on the go2
Shared calendars1
Free timeNot statistically significant

On the fridge this week

  • Ring school. We'll be late. Reason: stuck behind a combine harvester. Again.
  • School trip Tuesday. Permission slip is on the fridge. Probably.
  • Bin day is Wednesday. The lid still doesn't shut.
  • Shoelaces. Again. Size 4.
  • Nappies. Not this size. The other size.
  • Whose coat is this, and why is it already too small?
  • Weekly shop: nappies, more nappies, something that is not nappies.
  • Thesis, chapter 4. After bath time. Definitely.

Entry 004 · Supporting evidence

The evidence

Almost a decade of data, lightly curated. Tap a photo to see the next exhibit. Drag them around if you must.

Bear and Carlene pulling faces with their tongues out by a lake
Exhibit D: serious researchers
Two small dogs in harnesses sitting together on a car seat
Exhibit E: research assistants (unpaid)
Bear and Carlene in a selfie at a seaside funfair, beside the Crooked House ride
Exhibit F: field trip
The inside of a family car, rows of child car seats and folded seats, no one inside
Exhibit G: transport logistics
Carlene with a reindeer selfie filter, Bear in a Decepticon cap behind her
Exhibit H: festive peer review
Bear and Carlene in a selfie at the entrance to The Business Show in London
Exhibit I: networking, allegedly

Entry 005 · Questions

Frequently asked

What is The Diary of a Mad Black Couple?

The Diary of a Mad Black Couple is a podcast from Thrivology Limited. Bear McBlack and Carlene Nisbett-McBlack talk about their life and their relationship: ambition, money, repair and the pressure around a relationship.

When is the first episode out?

The Diary of a Mad Black Couple has not released an episode yet. Join the mailing list on this page and we will email you when Entry No. 001 is out.

Who is the show for?

The Diary of a Mad Black Couple is made for Black British adults in a serious relationship who want to hear a couple talk plainly, without a lecture. Anyone curious about how a romantic partnership and a working partnership share one life is welcome too.

How long are episodes, and how often will they come out?

The Diary of a Mad Black Couple Season 1 is eight episodes of about 35 to 45 minutes each, released weekly once recording starts.

Is this a coaching or relationship advice show?

The Diary of a Mad Black Couple is two people talking, not a coaching programme or a matchmaking service. When a conversation touches one of the Thrivology Limited practices, we will name it and link to its site.

How do I get in touch?

The Diary of a Mad Black Couple reads every message sent to hello@diaryofamadblackcouple.com.